Minx Advice

and btw she have to keep an eye in her marks cuz she's a scholarship student .

Fri, 19 Apr 2013 23:58:15 -0400

Hi! sorry this is so late! Just now got access to a computer. Hope your friend is okay! Have you tried asking her what has changed? Have you asked her why she doesn’t feel the motivation to do her homework and to stay active in school? Have you asked her if anything happened or if she is upset about something? I know that people who struggle with depression can sometimes lose their motivation for things in life that they normally did just fine…asking her some questions might clue you in on what the deeper issue is.. Hope you guys figure it out!! xoxo

hello there , My bestfriend is in a problem and I want to help her but I dunno how ! at first she keeps on not doing her homework and started getting low grades , she doesn't prepare her files and binders which also gives her bad marks in her reports but now I just discovered that her parents at home keep on asking her to do stuff that she can't do even though she tried to , but honestly I don't know what are these stuff cuz I haven't asked her , and her parents keep on getting angry at her

Fri, 19 Apr 2013 23:55:55 -0400

Okay so er recently me and this guy have been flirting back and forth(he came onto me first) but the thing is im so confused on whether or not he truly likes me. AND JUST I HATE GETTING MIXED FEELINGS FROM GUYS.. But usually he grabs my hand or says hi and smiles when we pass in the hallways.. BUT he never texts me first :( I always have to and idk I feel like im being desperate and annoying when i do.. I am in such deep shit, this is why I hate relationships TOO MANY STRESSING FEELINGS.

Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:53:58 -0500

HII!!! it’s okay!! Keep calm!! But I have to tell you… Never ever text him again first…Ever. He is playing games and he is getting just what he wants, something physical and easy to have and something he doesn’t have to commit to. The truth is he might like you but maybe he doesn’t see “girlfriend potential” because he sees you as too forward or accessible. By not texting him first ever and portraying that you never think about him when you are not with him, it will make you appear more allusive, mysterious, hard to read, and desireable. The game is completely switched. And if he never texts you ever again, then just be glad you got out of that as soon as you did :) good luck!

OK so Im not trying to come off as conceided, but recently a lot of boys have been hitting on me, giving me their numbers, and saying we should talk more. I seriously NEVER know what to say when they call me beautiful or ask when we're gonna hang out. I'd ALWAYS get called ugly back in elementary/middle school which is why I'm not really good with guys to this day lol :( (I'm 15 now btw) anyways I need help I dont want to be that awkward shy girl who boys refer to as "pretty but too quiet" :/

Tue, 08 Jan 2013 23:42:06 -0500

Well it sounds like guys are very interested now! :) I would learn to embrace who you are now and be confident. NEVER turn this into conceitedness, but be confident. I respect people a lot more when I tell people they are pretty and they simply say “thanks” rather than trying to play it off with a “no I’m not” or “not as pretty as you!”. If I offer someone a sincere compliment, I want them to accept it as genuine. I am not trying to mock them. Similarly, when someone compliments you, embrace it! Just say “thank you!” and if they give you their number, take it. Embrace this new person you are developing into and be confident :)

hiiii so I really like this boy like, i dont know him very well but he's a friend of one of my friends and he's funny and I've talked to him some times(not really many) and I just i dont know, im always thinking about him since he added me on facebook haha but I dont think he likes me back and i dont what to do..

Mon, 24 Dec 2012 03:24:18 -0500

HI :) Well it’s always exciting to have the boy you like add you on facebook!! Well, I would just advise you to be yourself! To talk to him when you can, be kind, be funny, be confident. Don’t be needy, don’t be nosy, don’t be jealous. Smile at him whenever you can and always look him in the eyes. If you do these things, you will portray a very confident, mature, and desirable person that hopefully he will not be able to resist liking you :)

i want to be a girl but i can't. not physically possible. what do

Mon, 24 Dec 2012 03:20:36 -0500

Hi :) Well I think that what you should do is learn to embrace who you are on the inside first. Discover who you are, who you want to be, your dreams, your passions, your desires. Once you have that all figured out, maybe you will decide that you love yourself the way you are :)

still musical girl!. I dont knwo whether he still likes me and he never does that anymore but when we are on the bus alone together he does it again. i love him but have no idea whhether he love sme back. what do i do?

Wed, 15 Aug 2012 13:54:25 -0400

life is too short to waste time. Be straight forward! Tell him that youre confused about the signals he is sending. Tell him to stop confusing you if he doesn’t like you and to leave you alone. it’s not fair and he is just playing games. By being straight forward, it will give you some power and it will call him out for being a flirt and make him think about what he actually wants. :)

i have boyfriend. he's really possessive and is pretty much glued to my side. he's lovely but he gets really jealous so basically i can't talk to any other guys and they feel they cant talk to me either or else my boyfriend will get angry. i used to have loads of guy bestfriends and i loved it but now i have none. i LIKE having other friends but i love my boyfriend more than anything in the world and i dont want to hurt him. i just want a bit more freedom. what shall i do/say? :(

Wed, 01 Aug 2012 00:15:14 -0400

Hi! Well, he is obviously very insecure. He also must have trust issues. But I must also say that there comes a time in life where you just really won’t be able to have that many guy friends if you are in a serious relationship. It makes things so much harder and sometimes awkward situations arise. Having said that, your boyfriend is too clingy. I think there needs to be a compromise. Tell him that you miss seeing your guy friends but also keep in mind that you will never be able to be as close with them as you were. Reassure your boyfriend that you are with him for a reason and these boys are just friends. Tell him that you have no feelings for them and that he can trust you. Reassurance means everything :)

basically i was with my ex-boyfriend for two and a half years. he was a massive part of my life and i was crazily in love with him but after a while it began to not work and i fell for someone else. so i broke up with my boyfriend and about a month later i got together with my current boyfriend. it was such a fast change that i haven't had time to adapt and i'm not going to lie although i love my current boyfriend i miss my ex. not as a boyfriend, but just having him in my life at all (see next

Wed, 01 Aug 2012 00:11:43 -0400

it’s very important that you have time to heal from a relationship before jumping into another one. Whether or not you did the breaking up or you were broken up with, it was still a huge deal. You need to properly mourn finished relationships before you can give yourself to another. I think you should really try and let your old boyfriend go before you continue with your new one. Make closure for yourself and then continue on with life. End of chapter :)

I've been getting very flirty vibes from this kid I work with. We've always kind of had a verbal back and forth with each other but I've noticed that he's been getting very touchy. Like he'll play hit or kind of lightly kick my leg when he's behind me among other things. I like him, but he's 16 (I'm 17) and he's a bit of a stoner. I don't know how I feel about being in a relationship with someone like that. Help me! xx

Wed, 01 Aug 2012 00:08:16 -0400

Hi dear!! so, I would say that you shouldn’t have to settle. You probably have fun flirting with him and you enjoy getting the attention! It’s flattering! But, you are 17 and you are getting into more serious stages of life. Do you really want someone who is younger and doesn’t take things as serious to be holding you back? If his age and smoking habits don’t bother you, then try and pursue it! But, if you are still questioning his potential as a good boyfriend, let him go :)

Do you believe in God??? I love God so much. God gave strength to survive everyday!! Umm, give me advice? I have a problems. I'm such an introvert girl. But, I'm about to continue my school so I will meet new students. What shall I do? I'm SO SHY to introduce myself to the public... :((

Sun, 17 Jun 2012 11:59:50 -0400

Hi!! I do believe in God :) I wouldn’t make it thru any day without him :) my advice for you is to force yourself to introduce yourself. You HAVE to sometimes in order to meet people and move forward. I know it’s so hard but just try to push through it :)

Hello sister. I might be the weirdest anonymous. I've been missing you. Sorry, for spamming your inbox. Wishing you're in a good condition. Let's to the point. I have a big abnormal crush on a pop star singer. He doesn't even know I'm exist. But, the whole day i just imagining if we have a life, together, happily ever after. But, I always pray the best for him, for his future Princess. Do you think its weird to have a crazy "imagination" like me? Its sad to know, he doesn't even know me. Hurt :(

Wed, 13 Jun 2012 15:47:40 -0400

Hi love! I do not care that youve been spamming my inbox, i LOVE getting messages!! :)) I think that you are not alone in your situation. MANY girls across the world feel this way about their celebrity crush. While it may hurt and may feel silly, it is perfectly normal and you will outgrow it :) I promise. You will get older and develop different tastes and maybe even meet someone at your school. I promise you this won’t last forever so don’t be too distressed :))

I follow you on malibuminx and I love that you're always so happy and smiley about everything! I wish I had that much positivity in me, I would live life so much better.... I may sound lame, but how do you do it?

Thu, 31 May 2012 00:47:30 -0400

Aww thank you so much you sweet anon! I think here on tumblr, I portray what I wish to be all the time in everyday life! I’ll bet if you met me in real life you would be surprised at how sarcastic I really am haha :) I just want to be so nice to you all though! It makes me so sad to see bloggers be mean to their followers or not actively be nice to them! Also, since I am 21 and an “old” blogger for tumblr, I want to set an example for all of my followers and be like a big sister to them. I want to work with high-schoolers (ages 13-17) and I want to treat you all so well :) I really mean it when I say that I care about my followers :) You’re like my little siblings :) As for real life, I would say how I try to stay positive is to try and catch yourself when you complain! That’s what I try and do. Even when I’m just about to complain about the weather! I try and stop. It helps you be more positive in life as a whole :) So I would recommend starting with just biting your tongue when you want to complain! You’d be surprised at how much better you will feel :)

my parents sorta suck, and they decided to tell me the week before the college deadline that we didn't have the money to pay for the college that i was dyyyyying to go to. so like now i'm basically stuck going next fall to a college that i'm really not comfortable with, and i have no idea what to do. help?

Thu, 31 May 2012 00:24:15 -0400

Hi dear :) I remember being in the EXACT same position. I wanted to go to school out of state and was soooo set on going there but then we didn’t have enough money. Taking out loans wasn’t really an option because my school would be paid for if I stayed in state. Try and remember that if your school is getting paid for, even if it’s at a school you don’t want to go to, you will be SOOOOOO happy you don’t have 100,000 dollars in debt afterwards. Anyways, I ended up going to a school in my home town! How lame right? But it turned out alright. I didn’t live at home, I lived in the dorms and met my roommates that I have been living with the past 3 years and it’s great! I met so many people and made so many friends. I didn’t want to go here at all but now, I’m happy that I did and I wouldnt leave :) All I’m saying is that you should try the other school. Your situation could be like me where you end up absolutely loving it. It’s the people that make the school, not the campus. But if you are absolutely set on going to the other school, set out a plan for your parents. Show them that you are responsible enough to make these decisions for yourself and you will handle the money. Apply for scholarships and loans, show them how you plan to budget and how you are going to make it work out. Convince them that you are mature enough to make these financial decisions on your own. If you don’t have a game plan, they will never bite. I wish you the best lovey! <3

Well I just wanted to say. I have this guy best friend, and we talk so much. It's so funny cause he calls me and we talk on the phone until early in the morning (hehe) and we skype all the time. At school, his friends all make fun of us for being a couple. Obviously that's not true, but he never gets too annoyed about it, and neither do I. But idk, you can probably tell that I like him. I just don't know what to do and the school year's almost over.. & not going to the same high schools ):

Wed, 30 May 2012 03:30:56 -0400

Hello dear :) So what it comes down to is the risk factor. What are you willing to risk here? Are you willing to risk your friendship by telling him you like him and want to take it to the next level? He could respond amazingly and tell you that’s what he wants too. Or he could say he just wants to be friends and it could ruin the friendship because you can’t get past your feelings or it’s awkward. Or are you willing to not tell him and lose something that just could have been great but you will never know? This is where you have to weigh out the pros and cons and decide what you will regret more. telling him or not telling him. Good luck babes!! <33

im in love with a teacher at my school who plays the piano for us. hes 25. im 18. i dont think he even knows who i am though....how can i say hi? ahhh its driving me nuts i literally cant stop thinking about him

Tue, 29 May 2012 22:40:12 -0400

The forbidden love! :) I must advise to you to, no matter how hard it is, to stay away from him and to try so hard to stop thinking about him. It could become very dangerous and sticky if you choose not to. You could risk his job not only at this school but even his whole career. I cannot stress to you enough that if you are meant to be with him, it will be under different circumstances where there would be no inappropriate teacher-student relationship. So my advice to you now, since I am assuming you are a senior, is to try and get over him. You are young and beautiful and have so much life left to live and I know you will find someone who you are allowed to love who is allowed to love you back <33

but the thing is i know he cares about me too, i just want to be closer to him again. to me he's worth every fight, everything. he's been there for me through so much and i just wish one day we could be in a relationship. i really need help figuring out how to get back to the talkative best friend mode and how to then move from that to relationship. he's my everything.

Tue, 29 May 2012 22:35:03 -0400

Hi dear :) Relationships with anyone are tough but bring boys into the equation and it is wayyy tougher. I’m sure you’re not the only girl in love with someone that doesn’t know. I would just try and actually start talking to him more often. Tell him you miss being best friends and talking to him constantly and that you want to start doing that again. If you don’t want to actually say that, then just start doing it anyways. Start just talking to him all the time :) I’m sure it will get better and help you to get closer :)

a guy i've been best friends with and in love with for 4 years. he lives 1500 miles away. we used to talk alot, but his girlfriends over the last 4 years have tried to stop that. he was at fault too for letting them runover me, and i was at fault for giving them a reason to. from sept. to january i didnt talk to him, trying to break away, but i recently saw him and i'm in love all over again. help! i know he's done some shitty thing but i'm so in love with him it hurts, (continued)

Tue, 29 May 2012 22:31:07 -0400

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