Minx Advice

Hi! sorry this is so late! Just now got access to a computer. Hope your friend is okay! Have you tried asking her what has changed? Have you asked her why she doesn’t feel the motivation to do her homework and to stay active in school? Have you asked her if anything happened or if she is upset about something? I know that people who struggle with depression can sometimes lose their motivation for things in life that they normally did just fine…asking her some questions might clue you in on what the deeper issue is.. Hope you guys figure it out!! xoxo

HII!!! it’s okay!! Keep calm!! But I have to tell you… Never ever text him again first…Ever. He is playing games and he is getting just what he wants, something physical and easy to have and something he doesn’t have to commit to. The truth is he might like you but maybe he doesn’t see “girlfriend potential” because he sees you as too forward or accessible. By not texting him first ever and portraying that you never think about him when you are not with him, it will make you appear more allusive, mysterious, hard to read, and desireable. The game is completely switched. And if he never texts you ever again, then just be glad you got out of that as soon as you did :) good luck!

Well it sounds like guys are very interested now! :) I would learn to embrace who you are now and be confident. NEVER turn this into conceitedness, but be confident. I respect people a lot more when I tell people they are pretty and they simply say “thanks” rather than trying to play it off with a “no I’m not” or “not as pretty as you!”. If I offer someone a sincere compliment, I want them to accept it as genuine. I am not trying to mock them. Similarly, when someone compliments you, embrace it! Just say “thank you!” and if they give you their number, take it. Embrace this new person you are developing into and be confident :) 

HI :) Well it’s always exciting to have the boy you like add you on facebook!! Well, I would just advise you to be yourself! To talk to him when you can, be kind, be funny, be confident. Don’t be needy, don’t be nosy, don’t be jealous. Smile at him whenever you can and always look him in the eyes. If you do these things, you will portray a very confident, mature, and desirable person that hopefully he will not be able to resist liking you :)

Hi :) Well I think that what you should do is learn to embrace who you are on the inside first. Discover who you are, who you want to be, your dreams, your passions, your desires. Once you have that all figured out, maybe you will decide that you love yourself the way you are :)

life is too short to waste time. Be straight forward! Tell him that youre confused about the signals he is sending. Tell him to stop confusing you if he doesn’t like you and to leave you alone. it’s not fair and he is just playing games. By being straight forward, it will give you some power and it will call him out for being a flirt and make him think about what he actually wants. :)

Hi! Well, he is obviously very insecure. He also must have trust issues. But I must also say that there comes a time in life where you just really won’t be able to have that many guy friends if you are in a serious relationship. It makes things so much harder and sometimes awkward situations arise. Having said that, your boyfriend is too clingy. I think there needs to be a compromise. Tell him that you miss seeing your guy friends but also keep in mind that you will never be able to be as close with them as you were. Reassure your boyfriend that you are with him for a reason and these boys are just friends. Tell him that you have no feelings for them and that he can trust you. Reassurance means everything :)

it’s very important that you have time to heal from a relationship before jumping into another one. Whether or not you did the breaking up or you were broken up with, it was still a huge deal. You need to properly mourn finished relationships before you can give yourself to another. I think you should really try and let your old boyfriend go before you continue with your new one. Make closure for yourself and then continue on with life. End of chapter :)

Hi dear!! so, I would say that you shouldn’t have to settle. You probably have fun flirting with him and you enjoy getting the attention! It’s flattering! But, you are 17 and you are getting into more serious stages of life. Do you really want someone who is younger and doesn’t take things as serious to be holding you back? If his age and smoking habits don’t bother you, then try and pursue it! But, if you are still questioning his potential as a good boyfriend, let him go :)